Im 25 and i grew up with no father, my mom and my father split up when i was only four years old, still fresh in my mind that my father physically and verbally abused my mom that time. i saw him one time trowing things to my mom even she was preganant with my baby bro. He was a very irresponsible father, for he never find a job so that he could feed his family, and my mom did her best to provide for us, and im so thankful for her for doing the best that she can.
And im so glad bcoz he realize that now, when i was chatting my mom last night she told me and sis about what happen when she visit my grandparents in bohol, she was able to talk to my father. For all those years kadto pa sila nagka estoryahany ug balik, my mom told me that my father was crying and feel so sorry for what he did to us and for not taking care and providing the things that we need.
And im so glad bcoz he realize that now, when i was chatting my mom last night she told me and sis about what happen when she visit my grandparents in bohol, she was able to talk to my father. For all those years kadto pa sila nagka estoryahany ug balik, my mom told me that my father was crying and feel so sorry for what he did to us and for not taking care and providing the things that we need.Hmmm but i realize that now that even though my father was an idiot, he still my father and i cant change that, i already forgive him, coz i know everything happens for a reason right? kung wla sad cguro sila mag buwag i dont think i will be here right now, sa akong gika butangan. And i guees when i will go for a vacation in the philippines i would like to see my father and tell him that i already forgive him....Hmmmm its about time naman pud cguro to leave past behind live the future.just forget and forgive nalang.
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hehe ayaw hilak dae.nindot raba imong balay..bitaw just be thankful na you find that special place in your heart to forgive your father..your right, i think its about time for you to leave the past behind...sakit sakit lang na sa dughan..so nag uli na imong mama ug papa?
mao ba byang? ako ambot nahuman ko basa ani nga entry kay tulo man akong luha...emotional man au ko ron panahona oi. nakalaag ko diri imong balay samtang wala pay ataki sa tiyan. maglagot kog mohapon na kay ang sakit motunga nganu mani gipa lisod lisod man kos bata.
mao cguro ni resulta sa kasubi subian naku sa akong inahan sauna? mao naba ni gitawag nilag gaba byang?
I can relate to what you are trying to say ivs.Ive'd been there too.My father wasn't a good father to us at all.Although he didn't hurt my mom physically but verbally a lot.& it's even more painful than physical attack.Oh well,my father died long time ago & i already forgive him too so may he rest in peace.Since your father still exist in this world,don't waste the time to talk to him,he might have something to tell you or whatever,give him time to explain his side.That's what i missed about my father,i should've talk to him before he died so he can explain why he did those things to us his children.But now i can fully understand that people will be mold from their past life, basing to their experiences & hardships they encounter while in their young age.So my suggestion is talk to your father,that's the best way.Godbless & goodluck!
Ohhhhhhh?Really gwaps?Cguro na realise na niya na nidako bisan wala cya ug na I think na miss niya ang inyoha pagdako gwaps.Pero without him wala pud unta ka natawo hehehehe.Bitaw pasaylo-on gyud kay bad man sad pag mag dumot labi na nga imoha pa jud father..ang tawo may kasaypanan jud.Who knows ma one complete happy family diay mo,diba?I'm sure naa juy mga reason ang panghitabo.I'm glad for you and for you family gwaps.TFS!
Hi Ives,musta na?pasensya na wako kaaju ka laag ky na busy ko..
sorry to hear about your father Ives..sakto ka everything happens for a reason and I'm glad that you already forgave your father ky di man pod maaju ug magdumot ta..atleast naka realize na cja sa iyang sayop..
oiii tga bohol diay imong papa guapa??asa man dapit sa bohol??basin silingan mi..ahehe
ingatz always guapa...
First of all dae Ivy, binuang ra nako to oi, wa ko nasuko, hahaha ako naman gani giimbita akong sarili...waaaaa!
What a sad sotry bitaw dae Ivy pero saludo ko sa imong mama sa iyang pang-antus, paningkamot, pagmahal ug pag-alaga ninyong tulo, iya gyud gikaya..
Ako papa wa pud baya nako na ginatingugan mga 3 years na gyud kay magpakairresponsabli sab kaayo...Sa una bisag halos wa na mi kaunon, palabihon gyud ng iyang mga silingan, or mga kaila...14 mi kabook, wa noon sya nagapangulata, way abuse pero, irresonsably sa, ako mama lang permi ang permi moalaga namo, kusog maningkamot, baligya tawon mga gulay, manguma...grabing hago niya...
Ang akong nalainan gyud pagkasakit sa akong mama, didto sya nagcheat, para nako, iyang gibaboy akong mama kay wa ng mahimo, samantalang sa una sya man ang mahadlok sa akong mama..
Good for you napasaylo na nimo sya....
TC gwaps, happy Wednesday, pareha diay ta magsugod panginabuhi ginagmay, maayo nalang....
Hello iv's good morning ninyo dira!!!
hala ka oyy makahilak man sab ta sa imong life.. haaay saon iv's pareha ra man tawon ta. wala sab ko amahan buhi pero wala may ayo kay nangabit man. pero okz ra oy wala man ko ga dumot sakit lang maghunahuna nganong ing-ani ang nahitabo!! 4 mi magsoon ako youngest. buntis pa lang akong mama sa ako-a mao tawon pag pangabit sakong amahan! Police intawon to pero wala jud tawon ga suporta namo. unsaon akong mama ma pride man ayo so wala jud nangayo ug suporta sa amo.. so akong mama kayod jud tawon panarbaho kay para mabuhi ming upat! basta long story!! heheh.. pero never evr jud ko ga dumot sa akong amahan maski mo tuwad pa ang kalibotan amahan gihapon nako xa!
good for u iv's kay ka patawad na nimo imong papa!! ana jud na at first lisod jud dawaton pero ma relaize ra nato na madawat jud na ato. sama sa imong giingon nga everythings happen for a reason jud!!
hala sige gwaps have a nice day nimo dira. take care always.. naa paka chance para mag talk mo sa imong papa so hope and pray na maka uli ka puhon diri pinas.
God bless you and your family!!
muaaayh
bye byee
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